Knowing when to say something and when NOT to say something is a very valuable skill. And unfortunately not one I have mastered in my skill set. Let's think for a moment. There are tactful ways to change a subject and there are not so subtle ways. Doing things subconsciously, impulsively, and simply out of habit are a few examples, two of which can be actively worked on. The other is simply training the subconscious mind to chill the fuck out and sit in the back seat where it belongs. Saying exactly what is on ones mind at any given moment, and not filtering can be very hurtful to others and then you feel bad for saying it. It can't be taken back. The only way is to stop, think about what you're going to say and how it may effect the person you're saying it to, then once you have reached a conclusion, double check with yourself and make sure it's the right decision. If it's not you can only learn and try again. Tomorrow I plan to implement this strategy and see where it takes me. Hopefully to a new level of social awareness.
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